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Thursday, July 26, 2012

Münchausen syndrome by proxy or just scared?

In November 2011, a Burgundy Sedan was left in the driveway at 7684 Ridge Chapel Rd., Hanover, MD 21076. I was told it belonged to Eric Blasé a stepson of my brother, Andre D. Thomas [of Odenton, MD]. Eric Blasé's residence is unknown to me.

The car had no tags, a flat tire and a car cover. When I first heard that it belonged to Eric- I was a little concerned in that I was told Eric Blasé has a criminal record and into drugs. I thought it may have been stolen and was very concerned we were in receipt of a stolen vehicle.

Eric is in his twenties and quite frankly the car did not look like something he would own. It looked like a state government car.

Within a week of the car being left on the property where I reside, I called the FBI in Washington, to ask if they could run a check on the vehicle to insure it was okay. Why not local police [Anne Arundel Co, Maryland]? See this blog-http://qisoftware-suppport.blogspot.com and the events that occurred when I eventually [Monday, June 18th, 2012] did call the local jurisdiction to run a Vehicle Identification Number check.

Officially, the FBI never got back with me.

Around 6:00 pm on Monday, June 18th, 2012, I called 411 [or 911-cannot now remember] and asked for the non-emergency line for Anne Arundel County Police. The reason? To ask, if the could send a car around to check the VIN on the abandoned car. I explained it was supposed to have belonged to an Eric Blasé, a stepson of my brother and he had a criminal record. I was concerned. My mother was on the upstairs extension-very upset. I did not understand why. I asked her to hang up more than once. When the girl who took the call said a car would be around to check the vehicle in several minutes, I hung up to go out and greet them. I did notice my mother was still on the line [upstairs extension] however did not check to see what she was discussing. I thought she was trying to tell them not to send a car to check the VIN.

If the call tape is replayed you will find my mother confirmed what I said about my brother's stepson [Eric Blasé] owning the car, it had no tags and that he had been in trouble with the law. I am not sure why she was so upset.

Based on something my mother said-on the phone, a mobile crisis team was sent out-however they did not arrive with the police officers checking the VIN. It was my call to the police-so when I was told the two females who pulled up in a van were a "mobile crisis team"-for some reason I thought they were a police tow team for the car. I went inside. They were not. Why would I assume a call I made to the police to have a VIN number checked, would result in sending a mobile crisis team for a domestic issue? I did not. I went back inside, put some newly purchased cokes in a coke caddy and sat down to begin watching the news or something. Was it determined I was delusional because I misunderstood what mobile crisis unit was? That is when the two officers and the two females with the mobile crisis unit knocked on the door and I asked them to come in. My mother and sister [who arrived during the incident and does not live at 7684 Ridge Chapel Rd, Hanover, MD] remained outside. A brief interview with a member of a mobile crisis team [the only question: what is the date-I work from home I originally said Tuesday, but then corrected it to Monday, June 18th, 2012.], the police handcuffed me and took me to the Baltimore Washington Medical Center for evaluation. I was never sure what was said- but the report I saw from the officer of the peace DB Long [who handcuffed me and took me to the medical center]-claiming I was delusional, hyper, verbal aggressive behavior, poor hygiene, etc. I never heard anything about domestic violence as related to me and my mother, that is not until several days into the 2.5 weeks I spent at the medical center. I heard about a choking incident. I asked my mother, my sister, anyone to tell me about this incident. I also asked why is this the first time I am hearing about any abuse incident. My mother goes out regularly with friends, family and sees her doctors often [military dependent, aging] for REDACTED, REDACTED, and though I have no confirmation I believe REDACTED. Have any of these people noticed the results of abuse from me. She goes to the hospital so much-- I often think her doctors may think her a hypochondriac. I am thinking more Münchausen syndrome by proxy.

I admit I work a lot-and spend long hours with my business-qisoftware.com. I am a software consultant-who on the surface looks like a failure--- but the problem is--- WiredPages [wiredpages.qisoftware.com] and the Blogger Calendar-often given loud accolades. I should not be a failure. In that I have had some pretty large affiliates - Apple, Amazon, I have asked the FBI to investigate fraud and whether my business communications have been interfered with. I see my sister when she comes over but not many others. In March 2006, my brother-Andre Thomas assaulted me and I called the Anne Arundel Co Police. This the only domestic violence issue I know about concerning me. At the time, I did not press charges and the police claim they have no record of the incident. I blogged about the incident in my blog and have the original posts.

Are there any police reports suggesting I have abused my mother. My mother started behaving oddly in May 2012. I am not sure why. She is hyper on the call. I am calm and professional. I am told-police officers say they saw movement within the house when they were outside completing the call. I was moving from the garage area to the kitchen filling the coke caddy in the refrigerator-however had completed that task by the time they knocked on the door. I was calm and pleasant when they knocked on the door.

On June 18th, 2012, when I asked the officer claiming to be DB Long, for an attorney, he said for what- you are not under arrest. This while I was sitting in his cruiser, handcuffed. If my mother said anything about physical abuse to the officers or crisis team I never heard it nor did DB Long who did not put it in his report. My brother is 6'4" about 230 lbs. and my sister 5'9"-about 300 lbs. If I were abusing my mother why would they not have called the police or said something to me if they suspected that? Why use the call I made to the police to ask them to check a VIN NUMBER-to suggest I have a mental disorder? Can she provide doctors' support for any claims of abuse? She goes to see her doctors quite often. Either at Bethesda Naval Center or Fort Meade [Kimbrough]. In an emergency she has also been taken to BWMC [Vertigo and she bit her tongue once while having Kentucky Fried Chicken with my sister and I]. She often lunches with friends, and sees family and friends. Can any of them support claims I abuse her? Why have they not said anything to me? As a result of the police engagement on Monday, June 18th, 2012, that I originally requested because of the abandoned vehicle, I was observed by Dr. Beyer and his team of medical professionals from June 19th, 2012 through July 5th, 2012 at BWMC. I am still unsure why this happened. On June 29th, 2012 a medical review panel determined that I could not be forced to take medications because I was no threat to myself nor others. The prescription I was given when I left [discharged from] the medical center was for 3mg of Invega per day for 15 days with no refills. A standard Advil capsule is 200 mg. I am not sure the makers of that drug even offer it in that dosage amount-but they may. That said-it was my option to take it.

On Monday, July 24th, 2012 when my sister, Judy Thomas called Anne Arundel Co police based on a phone call she had with my mother-they [Anne Arundel Co Police] again determined I was not a threat to myself nor anyone else. This time they left as did everyone else.

Later that day-an Anne Arundel Co sheriff provided me with a copy of a temporary protective order that had been issued that day. The order listed incidents my mother claims occurred in May 2012 concerning pushing and choking. I have never pushed nor choked my mother. But why are these incidents even listed in that they are supposed to have occurred before June 18th, 2012.

There is nothing to substantiate I am abusive to my mother. The thing I noticed about both incidents-I was in the middle of trying to contact the FBI or the police to have them check or investigate issues. In the case of the July 24th, 2012 - I was on the phone asking the Baltimore FBI field office if they could investigate whether Anne Arundel Co Police exceeded their authority on June 18th, 2012.

My mother [Madeline D. Thomas] knew I was on the phone [in this case my Skype line] which has no extension. My mother has always said-do not call the FBI nor the police. They cannot help. That is what I was doing when I asked my mother to stop vacuuming while I was on the phone [Skype Line]. And I had been working in the area long before she decided to vacuum. When she would not I unplugged the vacuum and put it in the basement. I did not snatch it away from her. I did not touch her. I simply said-mother I need the FBI to investigate.

On at least 2 occasions while my brother was there on July 24th, 2012-he stated the FBI is not your friend. I was on the phone with the FBI while the police were there on Tuesday, July 24th, 2012. I have not seen Andre in the house since about 2 years prior when he delivered a treadmill. I have not spoken to Andre since March 2006 when he assaulted me and I called Anne Arundel Co Police. I did not press charges.

If I had assaulted my mother at any time-why didn't she press charges. I promise I have not assaulted my mother. I often ask my mother to leave me alone-I am working. Even my mother agreed I had not touched her that morning. What she did say was I had in may 2012. I did not push nor choke my mother. Not ever-which is what she said I did. I have never tried to physically harm my mother. What started this? The only thing, I can come up with---- I keep asking law enforcement authorities to check things. I rarely ask AA Co police for anything-check this blog-qisoftware-support.blogspot.com. I ask the FBI to look into any number of issues.

Why does this upset my family?

This temporary protection order is a great hard ship for me however, I do believe there is an ongoing investigation concerning allegations I have made where my business is concerned-and I expect relief.

I drive a car so old it has historic tags and I cannot use it everyday. I did not need to, because I worked from home.

I do not have medical coverage because I did not want my mother to have that burden. I stopped my medical insurance in 2005 or so. My mother was paying it.

Her conditions for my return-the 3mg of Invega for 15 days prescribed by the doctor? Counseling? Neither was required for my release. That said-I have no health insurance.

The other issue- on Tuesday, July 24, 2012 my mother claimed I fooled the people over at BWMC. She provided this to the police. Why are her conditions for my return to the house-the almost joke prescription and the recommended counseling? She seems to negate them [BWMC] and then use them on the same day. She negated them with the police - claiming I fooled them, however the Temporary Protection Order lists both of these conditions for me to be allowed to return to the house.

I cannot afford the prescription [okay 3mg daily for 15 days with no refills-if they have that dosage available I might be able to afford that] nor counseling, that said-no one but my mother claims I abused her. I do not. No-I am often busy and love working so I am not the best person to live with-nor socialize with. I am a nerd. I have a degree in mathematics and love computers. I also have a good head for business. What works what doesn't. I am a software consultant. Not many women I know are. My mother likes going to West Va to the casino. Now she likes Arundel mills. I do not. She has a life. I have a business. I encourage her to have fun-and I do not mind if it is without me. Just be careful. My 72 year old mother goes out to socialize more than I did when I was 32. A lot bores me. I do not mind if others have a good time. But why are none of her friends saying I abuse her? Has my sister or brother ever seen me abuse her? No I am not abusive to my mother. If surveillance from the house were possible - I would love it shown. The June 18th, 2012 call I believe is important. The police should have a recording... mother Please hang up-I just want to make sure that it is not a stolen vehicle. You, yourself told me Eric had a record.... Part of the call.



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